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Monday, January 30, 2012

How things change

I'm just going to warn you now. This is going to be an "off" week for me. Honestly, I've been dreading this week for a while now, and now that it's here, I just want it to get over with and go away.

At the same time, I sat here just now and thought back to where I was a year ago. I was still driving the ever-so-glorious She-Beast (when she wasn't dead) and was constantly struggling to get through the day. I was barely making ends meet and was in constant danger of losing my utilities until I could get some steady income. My divorce was finally final and all I wanted to do was reclaim my life and move on, in any way possible. I had no idea how that was going to happen, but I know that I wanted it so badly that I could taste it.

Little did I know a year ago how much my life would change in the next 12 months. In one message consisting of only 4 words, my world would turn upside down. I would be on the verge of losing everything. I would lean on my friends in unimaginable ways. I would learn the true value of those friendships. I would lose loved ones but still see new life being brought into the world. I would try my hand at dating, only to fail miserably a few times before finally getting it right. Things would start to fall into place in so many ways. I would make an epic road trip to see friends, both new and old, and get to spend time with my family. I would see this piddly little blog grow from nothing to what it is today. I would gain new friends, lose old ones, and strengthen relationships that were damaged.

In short, it's been a crazy year. I'll touch on some things later this week, including some moments in my life that were devastating, thrilling, and one that always makes me reflect on where I've been and where I'm going. Things might get a little deeper than usual, but that's why I do what I do here - this isn't just a place for me to brag about my kids - it's also a place for reflection. I share some experiences in the hopes that they may help someone who has been in a similar place, not that I think that I'm an expert on anything, but sometimes just knowing that someone else has been there can be the catalyst for someone else's healing.

So, bear with me as I get through this week and the memories that are going to surface. Some of them are going to be painful, but I promise that they will be honest and I will not intentionally hurt anyone else with what I feel that I need to say. If I do, let's just discuss it rationally, ok?

With that being said, I hope that we can get into some good discussions this week - if you're not already following me on my facebook page, please come and join in the fun over there.


  1. It must have been a good year ago that i started following you amy as I remember the "she-beast" and how excited we were for you to get new wheels...This has been an unbelievable year for so many of us and I'm not sure how or why that happened, but have been thankful for the support that have seen here and that I have personally experienced from you and other online friends...Looking forward to seeing where life is taking you...You have worked hard and are deserving of the good things in your life...

    1. Thank you Mare! It is amazing to me as I look back over everything that has happened - and without a doubt the blogging community has been a wonderful form of support! So glad that you and I "met" each other! :)

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    1. You....are awesome. :)

      (I would love to say more than that, but I'll just wait until I see you in a few hours....)

  3. I can't wait to read this weeks posts.

    I'd follow you on FB.... but I am really trying NOT to use it anymore... Internet is addicting!!!!

    1. LOL I know, right? I spend way too much time on here....




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